Sub Homework, Building a Bond

My First go around as a Dom, I did alot of research. I also tried to use what I learned through research to try and better the bond between Kitten and I. When it came to homework, I was hit and miss. I was trying to do too much some days, and not enough on …

Kitten Makes Me Proud

The first few days of Kitten and I discussing, and moving back into a D/s relationship was not perfect. I knew there would be apprehension and fear on her part, I knew I would have stress on my part. I also knew, that she is an amazing submissive, that once she said she would try, …

Well, That Was Quick

So, not even 72 hours into Kitten agreeing to try with me again, I made a rather large mistake. It was a mistake, it wasn’t intentional. Kitten knows both of these things, but it didn’t change the fact that I did something without considering her first. I didn’t ask her, I didn’t discuss with her, …

It Is Still Right There

When I started writing this blog, as many may know, it was about my BDSM relationship with Angel. Since then, it has become a weird therapeutic rant page. The last 6 months have been some of the most stressful and emotional time that I have lived in my life.  But, through it all, that now …

Missing Kitten

Now, I do talk to her everyday. I do get that luxury, But I do miss MY Kitten. I miss my submissive Kitten. I miss holding her throat and making her orgasm intensely. I miss seeing my marks on her, I miss seeing my collar on her. The more and more I feel better, the …

“Why are you crying?”

That was what my friend asked on the phone. So, I took Kittens advice, and spoke to a friend of mine who was not aware of any of what and transpired in my life with Kitten. He knows of her, and we had discussed basic relationship stuff, but he didn’t have any clue about the …

To Punish or Not to Punish?

“She is the fuel to my fire, she is the swagger in my step. She makes me who I am through her love and submission” ~Sir~ There comes a time in every Dom/Sub relationship where punishment has to be given. Some Dominants are able to hand the punishment out without a thought, while others like …

Wait, are we in a Submissive Relationship?

When I first met Kitten, I was amazed by her strength, confidence and outspokenness. I loved talking to her, and hearing her fierce approach to life. She wasn’t taking shit from anyone, and she wasn’t afraid to say it. She was bold, honest and unafraid.  “Not exactly a submissive personality” I wasn’t looking for a …