You Have To Put Your Hand Out

I can't just pull you in, as much as I want too. I can't force you back into submission, it has never worked that way. You have to put your hand out, so I can take it in mine and we can go there together. Not a visit, not to look at old pictures of …

Appreciating the Invaluable Person

I have talked in the past about communication. I have discussed how when someone is worth it, you will do everything to communicate with them, and actually hear them and have them hear you. Sometimes the world gives you a strange way of seeing that communication value. I know that perception of most Dom/sub relationships, …

Reasons To Write

I haven't written for a while. Kitten used to tell me when I would get frustrated or miss her to write about it. It was a great motivation, back when she was my submissive and I was craving her. But, that's not why I haven't written, I still miss her and even crave her. I …

It Gets Easier

It doesn't matter what sort of interpersonal relationship you are in, couples, friends, family or even work, when you and another person are understanding each other better, you communicate better. when you communicate better, you understand each other better. Does that mean everything will be sunshine and roses all the time? No, clearly that is …

“Sober” by Tool

It has been a while since I posted, especially music. Been a weird and tough few days, but I am alive. So, Todays mood is "Sober" by Tool: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oO6m-WuYXRQ There's a shadow just behind me,Shrouding every step I take,Making every promise empty,Pointing every finger at me.Waiting like a stalking butlerWho upon the finger rests.Murder now …