It’s The Little Things

It is funny how little things, or things that you had experienced on a daily basis, make a difference when you miss them. Yesterday, was I got a few of those “little things” in very different places, and all were appreciated. First, I got a lot of research done for the blog, reading and writing […]

Sometimes, We Aren’t Strong Enough to Listen

The hardest lesson I have learned as a dominant is that we aren’t and can’t be strong all the time of we doubt ourselves and stop listening to the one we are supposed to protect and love. It cost me my submissive. Not because she saw me as weak, but because I didn’t turn to […]

To Punish or Not to Punish?

“She is the fuel to my fire, she is the swagger in my step. She makes me who I am through her love and submission” ~Sir~ There comes a time in every Dom/Sub relationship where punishment has to be given. Some Dominants are able to hand the punishment out without a thought, while others like […]

Wait, are we in a Submissive Relationship?

When I first met Kitten, I was amazed by her strength, confidence and outspokenness. I loved talking to her, and hearing her fierce approach to life. She wasn’t taking shit from anyone, and she wasn’t afraid to say it. She was bold, honest and unafraid.  “Not exactly a submissive personality” I wasn’t looking for a […]