46 and 2 – By Tool

Moving further into this process of fixing myself, my emotions and my confidence, I have been listening to alot of music. I know I have featured tool before, but this song seems really applicable as of late. The concept of 46 and 2 had been developed by Carl Jung and further expanded by Drunvalo Melchizedek. [...]

Bad submissive?

I don’t share others often, but this one hit home. The relationship of the author and her D is where I always saw Kitten and I in 20 years. It is so insightful.

She has a lost of great articles on D/s and being married to her D and more. I wish I found the articles before I lost my Kitten

nijntje & The Bear

I’ve never made a secret about the fact that I view myself as a dominant soul, submission is something I give to only one man.

Out in the world I would say that I was much more dominant than the Bear. I’m the one who takes things head on, charges ahead, tries to pave new roads in thinking and actions. That’s my forte, that’s where I feel most alive, most me. I don’t run around telling people I’m ‘dominant’ and telling them they need my help, it’s the opposite actually.

I lead by example, I lead by doing and taking care of business. I lead by being responsible and putting the needs of others ahead of my own wants. I lead by understanding the responsibility I am taking on when I give my word and I lead by never going back on that. To me that is the definition of…

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