Not Normally a Morning Person, But…..

Today, I woke up to an “I Love You” text from Kitten. We have been saying it right along, through all of the hard we have gone through. We do love each other, I know she loves me and I absolutely love her. But, I haven’t woke up to one of those in a while. …

Dominance and Confidence

Obviously before I start. I know that every relationship and reasons people fall in love is different and an individual experience. I also know that, often, when a submissive give themselves to a dominant, it is steeped in love and also an individual experience. That being said, here is my thoughts on a Dominant and …

To Be There For Her

Today started off pretty good, actually. I didn’t sleep great, I actually had the nightmare I spoke of. Kitten didn’t sleep great either. But, the majority of the afternoon went well. We chatted here and there, when my phone wasn’t acting like a dick. But, overall it felt like a decent day. I tried to …

Sometimes, We Aren’t Strong Enough to Listen

The hardest lesson I have learned as a dominant is that we aren’t and can’t be strong all the time of we doubt ourselves and stop listening to the one we are supposed to protect and love. It cost me my submissive. Not because she saw me as weak, but because I didn’t turn to …