Aftercare is not a job, it is an honor and my duty to Kitten~Sir! As my Kitten and I were learning more and more about our amazing relationship and our Dom/Sub relationship, we knew we had to learn all we could. Well, Kitten knew that and I agreed when she told me. We knew we …
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“Baby, You’re a Sadist”
Pointy Wheel of Love As you start down the road of BDSM you learn a lot about yourself. Often times, however, you learn more from your significant other. Kitten has helped me learn, and even taught me things about myself I never knew. Like, I AM A SADIST. Now, as most of you may know, …
The Roles We Play
“No Kissing, that’s the only rule. Everything else is fair game”Kitten in her “role” “Just come and kidnap me already, please.” Kitten texted as we were talking back and forth. The distance and missing each other makes it hard, and though we do the long distance amazing, sometimes we both blurt out a “Fuck it, …
To Punish or Not to Punish?
“She is the fuel to my fire, she is the swagger in my step. She makes me who I am through her love and submission” ~Sir~ There comes a time in every Dom/Sub relationship where punishment has to be given. Some Dominants are able to hand the punishment out without a thought, while others like …
Rules to live by
And follow them When Kitten and I were first finding our way in our “new” relationship, we did a lot of research. The research was Kitten’s idea, as she is much better at learning about things that are new to her than I am. So, we set off to learn as much about a Dominant …
Dirty Talk vs. Degrading
Body writing example She is mine! Always and forever -Sir First, every dominant has an approach that is fitting to their situation. This is strictly my perspective and how I treat my Kitten. If you disagree or have your opinion, feel free to discuss. As you travel through the pages of Tumblr and Fetlife looking …
Wait, are we in a Submissive Relationship?
When I first met Kitten, I was amazed by her strength, confidence and outspokenness. I loved talking to her, and hearing her fierce approach to life. She wasn’t taking shit from anyone, and she wasn’t afraid to say it. She was bold, honest and unafraid. “Not exactly a submissive personality” I wasn’t looking for a …
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Welcome to My New Blog
She calls me Sir I will love her, care for her, protect her and dominate her with all that I am. She is mine, and I am her keeper.-Sir Welcome to my blog page. I have developed this blog, at the suggestion and support of my submissive, to document my life as a dominant and …
Mind of Sir 